RETIRED! As of 7/1/23 Educational insight, classroom management and procedures. Also, postings of my original art/paintings/drawings, as well as other things!
Sunday, September 6, 2015
Mr. Mac...A Teacher's Point of View: Lesson Plans and Newbies!
Mr. Mac...A Teacher's Point of View: Lesson Plans and Newbies!: Your lesson plan should be a guide...goals to accomplish. Don't assign an absolute time frame; what is written cannot be timed. Di...
Lesson Plans and Newbies!
Your lesson plan should be a guide...goals to accomplish. Don't assign an absolute time frame; what is written cannot be timed. Dive in, infuse your words with humor. Elicit curiosity, encourage conversant exchanges. If a teachable moment presents itself...having nothing to do with your lesson...charge the mountain and teach it! Lesson plans are objectives separated by oceans of possibilities. Don't restrict yourself, but seize every moment to enlighten.
College may have taught you how to write objectives, Newbies, but they cannot teach you HOW to be a teacher. This is all on you! As you teach your kids, you are teaching yourself.
Remember...in the classroom nothing is set in stone! What worked one day, may not work the next. Be pliant, be adaptable, be able to change-it-up on the fly! Out of the seven hours you will spend in the classroom per day, only about half of that will be spent actually teaching, and even less time that that truly engaging the kids. Throughout the day you will hold your kids captivated for short bursts of time. Make the MOST of these times.
Finally, never...I MEAN NEVER...forget to have some fun during class! Breath through everything. Happy kids are mountain movers!
Have a wonderful year! The meme below is for shits-and-giggles!
College may have taught you how to write objectives, Newbies, but they cannot teach you HOW to be a teacher. This is all on you! As you teach your kids, you are teaching yourself.
Remember...in the classroom nothing is set in stone! What worked one day, may not work the next. Be pliant, be adaptable, be able to change-it-up on the fly! Out of the seven hours you will spend in the classroom per day, only about half of that will be spent actually teaching, and even less time that that truly engaging the kids. Throughout the day you will hold your kids captivated for short bursts of time. Make the MOST of these times.
Finally, never...I MEAN NEVER...forget to have some fun during class! Breath through everything. Happy kids are mountain movers!
Have a wonderful year! The meme below is for shits-and-giggles!
Saturday, August 1, 2015
There is Still Some Summer Left. In the Meantime...
I will write this as quietly as I can so as not to FREAK my fellow teachers out. We will re-enter our classrooms in about three weeks and get it ready for the first, official student day!
If you are a new teacher, please pay particular attention. If you are a veteran...I hope that some of this will recharge your awesome engines!
Take a moment and think about last year (Or...if you're a newbie...your student teaching experience). Think about the triumphs, the heartaches, the unforgettable moments, and the moments that you just wanted to rip your hair out! Think back to everything! Once you have done this...close your eyes and imagine a large wooden door, reinforced with iron bands. Open that door and place all of last year's memorabilia inside. Close the door and leave it all in there! Now and again have a peek inside at the awesome stuff, but let all of the bad lay in the darkness and rot.
I say this because whatever happened last year, or the year before, or the year before that has nothing to do with, nor has any real bearing on, this coming new year. The slate has been wiped clean! Never allow yourself to get trapped in the I wish it was like last year, or the...GOD I hope it is not like last year mode. You will always end up disappointed, or so intimidated by the thoughts of catastrophe that you'll be downing Pepto Bismal, bottle after bottle, right up through Christmas! No two years are the same. My frame of mind is that they are ALL awesome, and with each coming new year, I am better equipped to handle whatever comes down the pike.
If you are a newbie, or an old veteran with the same complaints year after year...listen closely to the following. Kids talk, kids chat, kids socialize, kids make
sounds, kids have to use the bathroom, kids talk, KIDS TALK, KIDS TALK!
There is no such thing as a classroom where the kids are silent during every lesson. If you have heard that there are...someone lied to you and probably also believes that fairies exist in forested realms. Over the years, I have heard many teachers say My God, my class is so chatty!...or...I have never had a class that talked so much! (Bullcrapolla!) Umm...hello? They are kids (30 of them) bunched together in a small space! Socializing and communicating are hard-wired into each of them!.
Newbies and Oldies...chatty kids are NOT the end of the world! If I ever had a class that listened intently to everything I said without so much as blinking, I would go in search of large alien pods out behind the school! Don't get frustrated if you have some talkers. Contrary to what you may have heard it is normal, and you will have talkers every year throughout your career! Getting the kids focused is the challenge. Your style, your way will do this. If you have ten minutes of uninterrupted, non-distracted teaching...you are on the right track. A focused class happens in spurts throughout the day. It is within these spurts you WILL educate the kids. Refocusing kids is one of the very tip-top parts of our vocation. Don't be boring...as soon as you see the Zoners, or the Strayers, or the Chatterers engaged in unfocused behavior...CHANGE IT UP! Get them back and move on.
Sometimes you will have to stray a bit from the path during a lesson yourself. If you have been banging away at some amazing lesson, and you begin to notice the telltale signs of the Zoners, or the Stayers, or the Chatterers sliding off task...simply stop the lesson! Be honest...tell the kids what you are seeing. Let them know that you are happy they hung tough for 10 minutes. Don't get angry at the kids, don't punish them...have about five minutes of fun! Yes, that is right...FUN! Get the kids energized again, get them laughing, get them moving. Once the energy is flowing, then get back to the lesson, and the next spurt of effectively teaching them something they never knew before! If you hold within you the expectation that all kids (Of ANY age) have the ability to keep themselves focused during every lesson...reevaluate your expectations. Hell, adults need a Call to Order throughout a workday too! Cut your kids the slack they deserve. If your class has given you 5 to 30 minutes (Time dependent on the age of your students) of focused energy, reward them by allowing them some time to RE-energize...have some fun! Lather, rinse, repeat throughout the day!
Go in like a lion and STAY THAT WAY! Don't be afraid to have high expectations in your classroom. Be consistent, and make sure you follow your own rules, and that you measure up to your own expectations. In our school cell phones are forbidden (The kids can have them they just have to be in their locker). Every year I am amazed to see many teachers using their own cell phones in the classroom, or lunchroom in front of the other kids...checking personal email, Facebook, whatever! This shows the kids do as I say and not as I do! Anyway...YOU are the alpha from the first day to the last, and your classroom is YOUR HOUSE! The goal is for your kids to become your cubs, and to eventually take ownership of their classroom. Your classroom should be your home-away-from-home! If YOU feel at home in your classroom...your kids will too!
ALWAYS be consistent in deeds and actions, and also keep your classroom's geography and placement of objects consistent. Before the kids arrive, set up your room the way you want. Set up the stations, put up your posters, establish your libraries and computer areas. organize a materials kiosk (Pencils, folders, erasers, etc.) and figure out where you will place a daily agenda, a word wall, and vocabulary wall spaces for whatever discipline you teach. Also, keep consistent where you will write your essential questions, even where you will hang a calendar! Once you have figured out where you will place all of this...LOCK IT IN! Your kids will soon learn where to go, and which way to turn their heads or focus their eyes when they need anything! On a personal note...I always leave a bit of wall space open. I have a soft spot for artists...this space is for them and their work!
Don't expect your kids to do everything you ask and not get something in return. Incentives are AWESOME! Give more time for recess if half the class scores 90% or higher on a Math test! Double the recess if everyone does! I allow my kids to earn circles of free-time throughout the week. I circle equals 5 minutes of free-time! I do NOT use, nor have I ever used candy as an incentive. Anyway, the kids can earn a circle individually or as a class. The circles can be earned for adhering to the core values, doing something amazing, helping someone out, doing a chore, being honest, accomplishing something they never did before, etc. We let the Free-time build up, and use it at the end of the day on Fridays. Now...what has been given can be taken away. Believe me, the kids WANT to build up their free time! To have it diminished by someone, or the class as a collective, hurts. Always give the kids something to work for or towards. The notion that a kid's education is the greatest reward of all means NOTHING to a student...no matter what the grade level is. We know that this is most important...this is why we teach! I know this sounds harsh, but to a kid...he or she just wants to get through it and move on. It isn't until the world starts knocking, or they are out IN the world that this educational credo matters.
Establish trust by giving the kids opportunities to earn it. Every year I have one or more kids that spent more time in the Principal's office than the classroom during their fourth grade year. They enter fifth grade...my classroom...conditioned that this year is going to be the same as all the others. After the first week, or the first month, these kids realize/believe that this year is a whole new ballgame! KNOW THIS NEWBIES...you will not only educate your kids, you will also un-educate them! Behaviors are learned...they can be UN-learned. Be patient, be strong when you need to be, and love always!
Lastly, please have fun with your kids! Kids LOVE having fun. Fun doesn't have to interfere with instructional time, especially when you are instructing in a fun way! Be crazy! Be a clown! Consider Shakespeare's All the world is a stage! Your classroom is your world...make every lesson a performance! A happy kid will move mountains! Will a bit of rain fall? YUP! Will thunderstorms rage? YUP and YUP! This is how life is too, right? Soon the sun will shine again...it always does. Take four minutes and rock out to a song...have the kids do the Harlem Shake on a boring Monday! Be a kid yourself for five minutes! There is more than enough time to establish yourself as the leader of the pack. So, everyday...every now and again during each day...be a kid. Think like a kid and have some freakin' fun!
I wish all of you an excellent year. I have a strong feeling it is going to be amazing!
If you are a new teacher, please pay particular attention. If you are a veteran...I hope that some of this will recharge your awesome engines!
Take a moment and think about last year (Or...if you're a newbie...your student teaching experience). Think about the triumphs, the heartaches, the unforgettable moments, and the moments that you just wanted to rip your hair out! Think back to everything! Once you have done this...close your eyes and imagine a large wooden door, reinforced with iron bands. Open that door and place all of last year's memorabilia inside. Close the door and leave it all in there! Now and again have a peek inside at the awesome stuff, but let all of the bad lay in the darkness and rot.
I say this because whatever happened last year, or the year before, or the year before that has nothing to do with, nor has any real bearing on, this coming new year. The slate has been wiped clean! Never allow yourself to get trapped in the I wish it was like last year, or the...GOD I hope it is not like last year mode. You will always end up disappointed, or so intimidated by the thoughts of catastrophe that you'll be downing Pepto Bismal, bottle after bottle, right up through Christmas! No two years are the same. My frame of mind is that they are ALL awesome, and with each coming new year, I am better equipped to handle whatever comes down the pike.
If you are a newbie, or an old veteran with the same complaints year after year...listen closely to the following. Kids talk, kids chat, kids socialize, kids make
sounds, kids have to use the bathroom, kids talk, KIDS TALK, KIDS TALK!
There is no such thing as a classroom where the kids are silent during every lesson. If you have heard that there are...someone lied to you and probably also believes that fairies exist in forested realms. Over the years, I have heard many teachers say My God, my class is so chatty!...or...I have never had a class that talked so much! (Bullcrapolla!) Umm...hello? They are kids (30 of them) bunched together in a small space! Socializing and communicating are hard-wired into each of them!.
Newbies and Oldies...chatty kids are NOT the end of the world! If I ever had a class that listened intently to everything I said without so much as blinking, I would go in search of large alien pods out behind the school! Don't get frustrated if you have some talkers. Contrary to what you may have heard it is normal, and you will have talkers every year throughout your career! Getting the kids focused is the challenge. Your style, your way will do this. If you have ten minutes of uninterrupted, non-distracted teaching...you are on the right track. A focused class happens in spurts throughout the day. It is within these spurts you WILL educate the kids. Refocusing kids is one of the very tip-top parts of our vocation. Don't be boring...as soon as you see the Zoners, or the Strayers, or the Chatterers engaged in unfocused behavior...CHANGE IT UP! Get them back and move on.
Sometimes you will have to stray a bit from the path during a lesson yourself. If you have been banging away at some amazing lesson, and you begin to notice the telltale signs of the Zoners, or the Stayers, or the Chatterers sliding off task...simply stop the lesson! Be honest...tell the kids what you are seeing. Let them know that you are happy they hung tough for 10 minutes. Don't get angry at the kids, don't punish them...have about five minutes of fun! Yes, that is right...FUN! Get the kids energized again, get them laughing, get them moving. Once the energy is flowing, then get back to the lesson, and the next spurt of effectively teaching them something they never knew before! If you hold within you the expectation that all kids (Of ANY age) have the ability to keep themselves focused during every lesson...reevaluate your expectations. Hell, adults need a Call to Order throughout a workday too! Cut your kids the slack they deserve. If your class has given you 5 to 30 minutes (Time dependent on the age of your students) of focused energy, reward them by allowing them some time to RE-energize...have some fun! Lather, rinse, repeat throughout the day!
Go in like a lion and STAY THAT WAY! Don't be afraid to have high expectations in your classroom. Be consistent, and make sure you follow your own rules, and that you measure up to your own expectations. In our school cell phones are forbidden (The kids can have them they just have to be in their locker). Every year I am amazed to see many teachers using their own cell phones in the classroom, or lunchroom in front of the other kids...checking personal email, Facebook, whatever! This shows the kids do as I say and not as I do! Anyway...YOU are the alpha from the first day to the last, and your classroom is YOUR HOUSE! The goal is for your kids to become your cubs, and to eventually take ownership of their classroom. Your classroom should be your home-away-from-home! If YOU feel at home in your classroom...your kids will too!
ALWAYS be consistent in deeds and actions, and also keep your classroom's geography and placement of objects consistent. Before the kids arrive, set up your room the way you want. Set up the stations, put up your posters, establish your libraries and computer areas. organize a materials kiosk (Pencils, folders, erasers, etc.) and figure out where you will place a daily agenda, a word wall, and vocabulary wall spaces for whatever discipline you teach. Also, keep consistent where you will write your essential questions, even where you will hang a calendar! Once you have figured out where you will place all of this...LOCK IT IN! Your kids will soon learn where to go, and which way to turn their heads or focus their eyes when they need anything! On a personal note...I always leave a bit of wall space open. I have a soft spot for artists...this space is for them and their work!
Don't expect your kids to do everything you ask and not get something in return. Incentives are AWESOME! Give more time for recess if half the class scores 90% or higher on a Math test! Double the recess if everyone does! I allow my kids to earn circles of free-time throughout the week. I circle equals 5 minutes of free-time! I do NOT use, nor have I ever used candy as an incentive. Anyway, the kids can earn a circle individually or as a class. The circles can be earned for adhering to the core values, doing something amazing, helping someone out, doing a chore, being honest, accomplishing something they never did before, etc. We let the Free-time build up, and use it at the end of the day on Fridays. Now...what has been given can be taken away. Believe me, the kids WANT to build up their free time! To have it diminished by someone, or the class as a collective, hurts. Always give the kids something to work for or towards. The notion that a kid's education is the greatest reward of all means NOTHING to a student...no matter what the grade level is. We know that this is most important...this is why we teach! I know this sounds harsh, but to a kid...he or she just wants to get through it and move on. It isn't until the world starts knocking, or they are out IN the world that this educational credo matters.
Establish trust by giving the kids opportunities to earn it. Every year I have one or more kids that spent more time in the Principal's office than the classroom during their fourth grade year. They enter fifth grade...my classroom...conditioned that this year is going to be the same as all the others. After the first week, or the first month, these kids realize/believe that this year is a whole new ballgame! KNOW THIS NEWBIES...you will not only educate your kids, you will also un-educate them! Behaviors are learned...they can be UN-learned. Be patient, be strong when you need to be, and love always!
Lastly, please have fun with your kids! Kids LOVE having fun. Fun doesn't have to interfere with instructional time, especially when you are instructing in a fun way! Be crazy! Be a clown! Consider Shakespeare's All the world is a stage! Your classroom is your world...make every lesson a performance! A happy kid will move mountains! Will a bit of rain fall? YUP! Will thunderstorms rage? YUP and YUP! This is how life is too, right? Soon the sun will shine again...it always does. Take four minutes and rock out to a song...have the kids do the Harlem Shake on a boring Monday! Be a kid yourself for five minutes! There is more than enough time to establish yourself as the leader of the pack. So, everyday...every now and again during each day...be a kid. Think like a kid and have some freakin' fun!
I wish all of you an excellent year. I have a strong feeling it is going to be amazing!
Sunday, April 20, 2014
Academics is the TOP goal in the Classroom. Really?
Many years ago, just before I entered my
first classroom, my goal as an educator was that of any novice teacher; I
wanted to fill young minds with knowledge.
By the end of that first year, the goal I had set went right out of the
window! Well, not really out the window.
I just packed it away in a safe place.
Filling young minds with knowledge
sounds great, and is the expectation of what we do of layman out in the
world. But, this goal is unachievable on
its own. This is not to say that an
educator won’t ever fill young minds with knowledge, rather…it simply can’t be
an attainable goal right from the start.
This knowledge acquisition can
only be attained by students after much groundwork, legwork, blood, sweat, and
tears! By October of my first year
teaching I knew that in order for me to teach pedagogically, I had to first
Unteach, engage, entertain, reconstruct, and inspire. Once all of this has been done (That first
year), I unpacked my original goal.
UN-teaching
begins the first moment of the first day of school. A handful of our kids enter our classrooms
(Every year) very knowledgeable about how to work the system. The attention seekers, the bullies, the
blurters, the note-passers, the chatterers, the
I-will-get-sent-to-ISS-and-get-out-of-classers, etc. The behaviors these kids exhibit are learned,
so they can be Unlearned. Shed light on the ugly, and shore-up the
weak. Stand your ground, and draw the
proverbial line in the sand. I could
give much advice on how to handle this UN-teaching business, but it would all
be MY way. You must find your own
way. I do give some helpful hints in
past posts if you are inclined to read them.
Just remember, all of us have a core.
The behaviors these kids exhibit surround who they truly are…their
core. Never stop, never give in…find the
core of your kids! Peel away the layers
your kids have wrapped themselves up in! Until you do this, nothing else can happen. Nothing!
Engage
your kids. Talk TO them, and not at
them. Ask their opinion on things. Get them talking about something interesting
to them. Allow them to teach you something? Validate that Math, or Social Studies, or
Writing can be boring, and then show them how it’s not! Be proud-as-hell for every accomplishment
they make. If they fall, encourage them
to rise, then rise further! Gear your
lessons towards your kids…we are creative, intelligent beings…we can make
anything interesting!
If you
have been teaching for a while then you know that deep inside you is a
frustrated actor or a clown waiting for a chance in the big ring! You must be unafraid to make a fool of
yourself. You must be prepared to laugh
with your kids, and at yourself, but never AT them. Make‘em
laugh, make‘em laugh, make‘em laugh! A
happy kid will move mountains, and you will always have a captive audience if
your kids know that when you are onstage…anything could happen! This aspect, when used in the right amount of
doses at the right times, will not only captivate your kids it will energize them. Engagement goes hand-in-hand here!
Many of
our kids enter our classrooms broken.
Some have been abused, or bullied.
Others come from families at a poverty level so low that food of any
kind is a luxury. A few struggle and
hate Reading, or Math, or getting up early because they were allowed to stay up
till 3am playing video games. Some will
have one or both parents in jail. Each
kid you have has a story; some will have stories that will break your heart. We can never take the place of a parent, but
we still must parent nonetheless. We
must carry these kids, and work hard to establish trust. Most of these broken kids have learned to trust no one. We must make every effort to show WE can be trusted,
and that our classroom is a safe place.
Never think that by just telling a broken kid to trust you, or that your
classroom is safe will solve the issue. Telling only works where time is
concerned. Listen, watch, listen a bit more. It may not be possible to completely fix a
broken kid, but you can plant a seed.
Perhaps, when June comes around, that seed you planted will grow, and
allow your kid to see some light at the end of the tunnel; that maybe there is some good in the world. Your efforts could cause a bit of
reconstruction inside this kid! YOU
could be the one to make a difference. THIS
IS THE ULTIMATE GOAL!
Finally,
you must inspire your kids. You must
strive…everyday…to make your kids see that there is so much more inside them
than what they came in with. A happy kid
WILL move mountains, but an inspired kid will build empires! Give your kids a reason to want to push the
barriers, and move outside of their comfort zones. Travel with them every step of the way. Take the kid that hates division, and show
him that he hates it because of remembering the many steps it involves. YOU work with him, have a classmate work with
him. Let him take the time he needs to
get it. Once he does…applaud, then share
the wealth. Have HIM help another
student to learn it. Now he is the
teacher! Get inside your kids, find
them! I promise you…each kid (At his
core) is a shining beacon of awesomeness!
Lastly, every
year…at some point…I take out my original goal, dust it off, and put it into
action. Once I have laid the
ground-work, done all of the leg-work, shed some blood, sweated profusely, and
squeezed out a few tears…I know that I will have a class that will absorb, and
apply all that I have to teach them.
Then, once June rolls around I pack it away again, and so it goes…year
after year. Oh yeah...and the prayer that I have made some kind of a difference comes into play.
I
remember about ten years ago a parent asked me,
“What is
your goal in your classroom? Wait, I
know…teaching Reading, Writing, and Arithmetic.”
I told
her, yes…I teach all of those things, but if I had a list of the top-ten
goals in my class…academics would be number ten.
The look
on her face cracked me up!
Sunday, March 9, 2014
Help Kids Do the Impossible...Make Good Choices!
There once was a young boy who had within him the rumble-tumbleness of a honey badger. He was headstrong. He was willful. One morning he decided to go fishing. He gathered up his pole, his bait, and his tackle-box and headed for the pier.
Upon arriving at the pier the young boy baited his hook, and cast his line. He felt the tug of the current, but not so much as a nibble from a single fish. He reeled in, and recast. Over and over he cast his line into the deep blue sea, but to no avail...his hook remained baited, but fishless.
After a time, the young boy lost patience; as rumble-tumble boys are prone to do. He decided to cast one more line. He double baited his hook then thrust his pole forward with all of his might! The hook, with its double weight, traveled a great distance over the deep, finally splashing and sinking slowly down into the brine. After a few moments the young boy began reeling in, when he felt something tug at his line. He froze in anticipation! Another tug, far greater than the first. Then a second! The third tug nearly pulled him from the pier! It was all the young boy could do to hold onto his pole!
His excitement swelled, for he knew that he had hooked something big! Holding fast to his pole, muscles straining, he looked out across the sea and saw what his hook had captured. Rising from the deep breached a leviathan! The whale thrashed and fluked...slapping the surface of the sea with such force it shook the pier beneath the boys feet!
The boy's excitement was replaced with fear! He knew that if he kept hold of his pole he would be pulled out to sea to his death. He also knew that if he let go, his catch would swim away, and without proof no one would ever believe his fish story. Perplexed, the young boy held strong!
Suddenly, a stranger appeared. The young boy pleaded with the stranger for help! Without a word the stranger took out a knife and cut the line.
I think of this story often. The message of it defines what I strive to do in my classroom.
As educators we have to know when to cut the string! There are times (Everyday) when I have to make a decision that has nothing to do with me, yet everything to do with my kids.
No matter the age, all kids will find themselves at a crossroads at some point and for some...making the right decision is a seemingly impossible task. Never miss an opportunity to step in, to interfere, to impose, to question, or to act if one of your kids is about to be pulled out to sea!
Most kids who seem to always make bad choices always have an inner-agenda, much like the young boy in the story above. These kids (Secretly) do not want to be hurt, or seen as a punk. So, step in...help him or her make a choice that never occurred to them.
Upon arriving at the pier the young boy baited his hook, and cast his line. He felt the tug of the current, but not so much as a nibble from a single fish. He reeled in, and recast. Over and over he cast his line into the deep blue sea, but to no avail...his hook remained baited, but fishless.
After a time, the young boy lost patience; as rumble-tumble boys are prone to do. He decided to cast one more line. He double baited his hook then thrust his pole forward with all of his might! The hook, with its double weight, traveled a great distance over the deep, finally splashing and sinking slowly down into the brine. After a few moments the young boy began reeling in, when he felt something tug at his line. He froze in anticipation! Another tug, far greater than the first. Then a second! The third tug nearly pulled him from the pier! It was all the young boy could do to hold onto his pole!
His excitement swelled, for he knew that he had hooked something big! Holding fast to his pole, muscles straining, he looked out across the sea and saw what his hook had captured. Rising from the deep breached a leviathan! The whale thrashed and fluked...slapping the surface of the sea with such force it shook the pier beneath the boys feet!
The boy's excitement was replaced with fear! He knew that if he kept hold of his pole he would be pulled out to sea to his death. He also knew that if he let go, his catch would swim away, and without proof no one would ever believe his fish story. Perplexed, the young boy held strong!
Suddenly, a stranger appeared. The young boy pleaded with the stranger for help! Without a word the stranger took out a knife and cut the line.
I think of this story often. The message of it defines what I strive to do in my classroom.
As educators we have to know when to cut the string! There are times (Everyday) when I have to make a decision that has nothing to do with me, yet everything to do with my kids.
No matter the age, all kids will find themselves at a crossroads at some point and for some...making the right decision is a seemingly impossible task. Never miss an opportunity to step in, to interfere, to impose, to question, or to act if one of your kids is about to be pulled out to sea!
Most kids who seem to always make bad choices always have an inner-agenda, much like the young boy in the story above. These kids (Secretly) do not want to be hurt, or seen as a punk. So, step in...help him or her make a choice that never occurred to them.
Sunday, February 2, 2014
Honesty is a GOOD Policy!
Consider for a
moment the idiom Honesty is the Best
Policy! There was a time that I used
this over-stated and conditional saying often in my classroom. Years ago, after stating the
aforementioned expression for the 10,000th
time, I took a few moments to really analyze what I stood behind, and defended
for years…the notion that honesty is the
best policy. The verb IS, and the
adjective BEST denote that honesty should always be employed, that it is at the
highest position possible, and above and beyond all notions to the contrary
regarding the best anyone could hope for towards success. Should honesty…absolute honesty…be the
end-all or be-all for what is good and righteous? Hmmmm…I wonder? Can one still be good and righteous if one is
to the left of honesty, or to the right?
Honesty: being
honest, being trustworthy, being dependable, being reliable, being diligent…all
of these things (And much more) fall under the heading of Honesty. Telling the truth would fall first on this
list. I am sure most of you would agree…at
least in our classrooms? This is where
I stumbled upon a conundrum, and how I realized that the scapegoat category
known as the White Lie came into
being. I found that I was a purveyor of
white lies, and untruths! This realization
stunned me! I had an apostrophe!
(Haha…thought I’d throw a bit of humor in).
I no longer use this particular idiom in its concentrated form while
playing vernacular volleyball. I added a
personal addendum to it. I am now known
to say…in this case, honesty is the best
policy...depending on the situation.
In my classroom Honesty is a virtue with which our
classroom atmosphere is based…our foundation.
Compassion is the framework
that houses us, and perseverance
shelters us from the cold indifferent winds of doubt. My kids can expect me to share my thoughts on
any given subject, and to show how I feel every minute of every day. I hold back nothing, and I do not hesitate to
expound on my love for each of them, or on how poorly thought out choices killed the cat! I
encourage my kids to do the same. If
there is a problem it is rarely handled on an individual basis. We hold a Town
Meeting and get to the bottom of it, then discuss options on how to fix it,
and then we determine consequences to follow as the result of it. There is no room for lying when it comes to a
poor-choice acted out, or harsh words spoken…we are the collective light of
truth that shines directly on anyone who decides to go down that road. For many kids, lying is their go-to reaction. My kind of Get-to-the-Bottom-of-it tactic is
not an easy lesson to learn. However,
once the kid (s) learns that fessing up
has its rewards, taking the consequence is an easier pill to swallow. The reward for honesty, in this regard,
builds upon a kid’s self-esteem and strengthens their character. The kids still hate taking the consequence,
but their integrity is intact!
Ok…back to my
conundrum. If absolute power corrupts
absolutely, so does absolute truth! I
remember going-on one day during a
discussion on a particular story we read in class. The discussions lead us to the topic of bad
choices resulting in incarceration. I
stated my honest viewpoint on the matter…making
a mistake can happen to all of us, but making the same mistake again is a
choice. Those who choose poorly and wind
up in jail do not possess the strength to do what is right, and they lack the
intelligence to know better! (Harsh, yes…there have more than a few times I
wished I could have pulled the tongue right out of my mouth!). Shortly after, the kids were working on an
assignment when one raised his hand. I
called him over. He told me…eyes down…that
his father was in jail, and that he wasn’t stupid. It was obvious that my student was hurt by my
words. I knew the story of this young
man, and I also knew that his father had been in jail off and on my student’s
entire childhood. I wanted to tell him
that his father was a self-centered idiot that would probably, one day, die in
jail. That his father was a chronic
criminal, a repeat offender that lacked remorse and had no compassion for
anyone but himself! This is what I
wanted to say. Instead, I looked into
his teary eyes and said…there are
exceptions to every rule! I am sure that
deep down your dad is a good man. I
lied! How could I tell the truth to this
kid who idolized his father? The kid
loved him, and had a child’s hope that one day they would be together! Honesty would have done more harm than good at
this point and time. Not to mention, I
was not in the position to pass judgment on this ten year old’s father, even
though what I knew to be true came true. If I believed that telling my student the
truth in this matter would have helped him…no matter how hurtful…I would have
risked it. Again, he was ten! Time and experience is what he needed to
learn this truth, not some white-bearded, mean hearted teacher!
Throughout my
career I have made good use of the white lie; my truth filter. I cannot knowingly and purposefully hurt
someone by stating an absolute truth when there are other recourses. Instead of…your breath smells like a sick dog’s ass! I might give the kid a mint, or quietly bring
up the topic of oral hygiene. One year
I reamed a kid out for calling a classmate stupid. His response to me was…But Mr. Mac, what if he IS stupid?
I made him apologize, and talked to him about being more responsible
with what he says, and encouraged him to help or tutor the other student. Secretly I could understand where this kid
was coming from. Most ten year olds do
not use the same vocabulary we adults do.
The outspoken student stated what he saw as truth, albeit, in a harsh
way. He had no filter mechanism. The other student did lag in more than a few
subjects, and in the eye of Mr. Outspoken…he was stupid. Filtering 101 must be part of every classroom
at every level!
Is it right to
state that someone is fat, or ugly, or stupid?
Does stating instead…you are at an unhealthy weight, your look is
interesting, or you are academically challenged…make the truth any easier to
take? The people in our lives who make
it their policy to state the absolute truth are seen as the assholes, the
bigmouths, the blowhards! These people
take great pleasure in the downfall of others.
They spew their caustic rants,
and absolute truths to knock down someone in order for them to rise up. Their statements
are not said to help, only to hurt. If a
painful truth must be revealed, it must be done with the intention of helping
someone who needs it. A painful truth revealed
should not make the revealer happy! It
takes monumental courage to tell someone a painful truth; because the revealer
may be risking everything they hold dear.
Dearest Teachers…be
honest in who you are. Be honest with
what you stand for. Reveal all to your
kids about yourself (Within reason and appropriateness), and never be afraid to
admit defeat, or that you made a mistake.
Don’t call a kid an idiot if they did something idiotic! Be angry, or disappointed in the choice, not
the kid. Like our own children, we won’t
stop loving them because they made a mistake.
Scream, pound, and rage if you must…just always make sure that your kids
know that after the storm YOU will be
there for them. Giving up on a kid is
way too easy. We educators are made from
stronger stock than that.
My favorite idiom…They won’t remember what you said, but they
will never forget how you made them feel…says it all, and it goes both ways. Be honest, and forever trustworthy just not
at the expense of a child’s heart or soul.
If you must be brutally honest, do so without any thoughts of yourself
and tread lightly. Honesty is a GOOD
policy!
Years ago, at the
beginning of a new school year, I saw the parent (Who also happened to be a
teacher) of a student I had two years previous.
Her younger son was to enter fifth grade this particular year. She was talking with a few other teachers and
called me over as I was walking by. She
wanted me to know that her younger son was enrolled in another class, and that
he wouldn’t have me as his brother did.
My older son needed you, but my younger son
needs a real teacher.
At first what she
said didn’t hit me, though by the wide-eyed reactions of the others standing
around I guess it should have hit me right in the face. Point is, that statement wasn’t needed. If this educator could say this to me,
imagine what she has said to her kids!
The hurt from this statement did not linger long. I considered the source and let it go.
Lastly, Dearest
Educators…straying to the left or right of honesty does not make us fakes, or
phonies. It allows us to be teachers. Teachable moments happen often, and the best
moments…the most memorable ones…happen outside the realm of curriculum! Keep your minds sharp, not your tongues.
Sunday, January 5, 2014
"Plant Your Feet and See What Grows"
Many
years ago, when I was at a crossroads in my life, my father gave me some advice
that would ultimately define the man (And the teacher) I am today.
His words
were not an easy fix. His words inspired me initially, but if I was
going to put forth that inspiration, take action upon it, make it real… it
could take time and great sacrifice. I
remember thinking “How much time? What
will I be sacrificing, and why should I have to give up anything?”
The
younger version of me wanted what I wanted, when I wanted it! Once my mind was made up I went for it…no
holes barred! To accelerate a plan of
action was my credo; it’s what I did, and I did it well! The notion of doing something that needed
time to germinate never occurred to me.
The idea of giving up anything I already had for a greater good also did
not make sense to my young mind.
Couldn’t I just do, and still keep what was mine?
What motivated
me to act upon my Father’s advice was the end result he assured would
come. He told me that if I had the
courage to follow through, I would always know who I was, what I stood for, and
that I would be able to lay my head down and sleep soundly every night. If I stayed the course, the crossroads in my
life would be at my back.
Dear Readers, before I continue I want you
to think back to the teleplay of 12 Angry Men, written by Reginald
Rose. The character of Juror #8 (Played
by Henry Fonda) is who I want you to remember.
From the beginning he stood his ground voting Not
Guilty to everyone else’s Guilty verdict.
He then spent the rest of the play being yelled at, looked down upon,
accused of being a bleeding heart, and scoffed at. Juror #8 became the most unpopular person in
the jury room, until the end. Because
Juror #8 planted his feet, stood his ground, and persevered, the accused would
receive a Not Guilty verdict. He
examined then Reexamined the evidence, and he could not in good conscience go
along with the throng as long as he had a reasonable doubt. Juror #8 knew who he was. Juror #8 knew what he stood for. I am also sure that Juror#8 slept well the
fictitious night that followed his time in that hot, fictitious jury room.
The
reason I wanted you to think back upon Rose’s teleplay (I hope that you have
seen this play, if not I highly recommend it!) is because we…good teachers…are all
Juror #8! Granted this is a personal analogy,
but I think it has credence for us all?
My
attempt here is to relate my perspective on the issue of being a good
teacher, and though I know there are multitudes of good teachers out there who
will be able to relate to this bit of writing, I also know that there are a few
who may take offense. To the few…those
who see numbers instead of names, those who place more importance on scores
than on individual achievement, those who never deviate from the straight and
narrow path, and those who place more importance on grades than on students…I
apologize if this post causes you distress.
Then again, it could be that my apology isn’t really meant for teachers,
but for the odd administrator, various DOE officials, and the parents who are
reliving their lives through their children?
Something for me to ponder, I guess?
I have
always placed my students first. For
this reason and this reason alone I AM Juror #8! My students’ experience with me, their
self-worth, their fears, their attitudes, their past, their present, and their
future…all of this is worth more to me than anything else. I have always kept, at the forefront of my
mind, the fact that my students…my kids…each have a path to follow, and their
own mountain to climb. I make it a
priority to spend every day helping the fallen rise, the back-steppers to leap
forward, and the climbers to find a sure footing. This is all done between the lines of instruction
and testing.
I make it
a priority to take advantage of every Teachable
Moment, and I find that some of my best lessons have nothing to do with
curriculum. I have never failed a student, because success
is the original Fifty Shades of Gray! I spend more than a few minutes, everyday,
talking to my kids…finding out what is on their mind, and I never make a
classroom decision without consulting them first. How can my kids take ownership of their
classroom if they are left out of the loop?
When we are bored, we stop and do something out-of-the-ordinary! We play a song; we dance to some classroom
friendly hip-hop! Once our batteries are
charged, we get back to it! There are
student friendly incentives for awesomeness, and carefully constructed consequences
for poorly thought out choices. In my
classroom we are all held accountable for our successes and our downfalls. For most of my actions spelled out above, I
am considered the odd-duck. To play a
song in a classroom where 27 students are dancing their butts off…absurd! Taking 15 minutes from instruction time to
have a Town Meeting (Classroom discussion) about an incident that involved
bullying…Just crazy! That’s me…absurdly
crazy!
The
average kid spends about 13 years in school, 17 years with college
attached! These School Years are developmentally important! Milestones are laid at every turn on a
student’s path during these years, and who
a student becomes after, weighs in at the balance. I knew this LONG before I ever considered
teaching! Don’t we all know this? I can say that the reason I gained the
confidence to accomplish much of what I have in my life is because someone…other
than my parents…believed in me! The many
teachers along my own path encouraged me to cultivate the best qualities within
me. I could name quite a few who had a
direct impact on my life. I won’t, but I
could! These few are always with me, and
not because one taught me algebra or another taught me how to conjugate a verb! The reason (s) they stay with me has nothing
to do with academics, and everything to do with their belief in me, their
compassion, and their willingness to dedicate themselves to me. Think back to your own formative years, and
to the teachers that made a difference in your life. I will bet you a snow-day that your admiration
for them has nothing to do with algorithms, nor with metamorphic rocks!
My goal,
as a teacher, has been clear since day one.
I will make every year the best year ever! I will find the BEST part of all my kids, and
spend my short nine-months with them polishing it up! I will celebrate a “C” and a “2” achieved by
a student who never gave up, and never gave in!
I will put the care and welfare of my kids over state testing every
minute of every day! I will prepare my
kids for their own successful academic achievement, future grade levels, and
life! I will do what I must do to help
my kids achieve all that is achievable for each of them! Lastly, I will never forget how it felt to be
a fifth grade student.
Reader,
what I have written about here is nothing new; it is what we all do every
day. I believe that we all put our
students first…above and beyond all things.
I just wanted to share the advice my father gave me so many years
ago. The 12 Angry Men reference was just an added bonus…though it fits!
There will be times in your life when you
will have to plant your feet to see what grows, my Dad said. You
will have to decide whether you will do what is easy, or do what you believe is
right. If you take the easy road then
you will shuffle on with the masses, following the same path as everyone else. But, if you do what you believe is the right
thing to do, then you will begin to carve your own path. It’s hard doing this. You might even make a few enemies along the
way, but if you have the courage to stay the course, and believe in yourself,
you will always know who you are, what you stand for, and you will sleep well
every night. Then he posed the
question…will you take the easy road, or
will you plant your feet and see what grows?
In my
classroom I will always do what I believe is right. In addition, I will also attend to the
business side of my vocation, of course (PLC meetings, grades, pacing, DCAS,
paperwork, etc) but never at the expense of my kids. I don’t mind being Juror #8. One day the scoffers will see that I, and
others like me, have been right since day one!
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